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Now, I let a lot of stuff go. But I really cant stand to see gay members of the population denigrated with the word "faggot." It is absolutely offensive and having gay male friends, I just cant condone the use of that word. The black community is hyper-homophobic which is probably the biggest reason many men can't come out. There is just this venomous hatred of gay men and its outrageous and I will not promote that.
Now if someone is a HGM, thats fair game, but this use of "faggot" is really offensive. Just like we don't someone saying "nigger" I wont allow another group of people to be attacked in this way. I have deleted most comments that include those terms and will continue to do so. I do not play that shit.
Peace people.
jam donaldson
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THANK YOU! Hate is hate is hate and it is all ignorant. People satirizing themselves and their own in-group is one thing and can be hilarious… but no need to do unto others as you don’t want done unto you.
Peace.
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Thanks Jam, I agree. There is no excuse for using any derogatory term.
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HALLELUJAH!!!!!
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THANK YOU, JAM!
This is what I was saying when I commented another picture. It just irritates me so much when people use that word; it’s very ignorant.
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I agree. Funny Bunny is better:0)
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I guess you have no fat/overweight friends then?
Because a lot the “ghetto” pics on here are of big girls. Who get called all kinda names just because they’re big. Isn’t that a form of hate and discrimination towards another group?
Now, this is your site. And I know non-donating peons like myself shouldn’t complain about shyt but I’m just sayin…discrimination is discrimination.
If I’ve missed the Jam mail in reference to big chicks plz ignore this post.
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Jam,I am so confused……So you’re saying being black is optional like homosexuality?
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i totally disagree. pics of big girls arent on here because they are fat. its because they look a hot ghetto mess. its not like i put a pic of some regular dressed big girl up there and we all just laugh. its usually because they look a mess like everyone else or are wearing something inappropriate for their size–and thats what the comments are generally about. i think thats fair game. big girls can be a HGM too, they dont get immunity.
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Whether or not you think homosexuality is optional has nothing to do with calling them fags.
If you wouldn’t call them a fag to their face, because you know it’s offensive, why say it when they’re not around?
It’s just as ignorant and nasty as any other derogatory name. It doesn’t make it anymore okay to say it because you think they chose to be homosexual. I completely agree with this Jam Mail; how do they come out when people around them have nothing but disgusting, hateful words to say?
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Your ethnicity/race/genes etc. are not optional. Being fat/ghetto/homo is. Anyone with the slightest hint of logical thinking would realise that. BTW, I’m no homophobe, just stating the facts.
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LEVITICUS 18:22……………..OM JUS SAYIN BUT WE SHOULD RESPECT ONE ANOTHER !!
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WHATEVER? THAT IS WHAT THEY ARE AND IF THEY DON’T LIKE IT GET IT RIGHT AND SCREW WOMEN!
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Candygirl , yu can’t be serious ?
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I agree with Breezy…I mean, we are all sinners. Nobody is perfect. So even though I don’t agree with the homosexual lifestyle, I would never degrade or belittle someone for being born with OR choosing that lifestyle….although some overly flambouyant, too-much-information-telling gays really piss me off and make me wanna talk shit.
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Hey it is what it is
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@Candygirl1978 – Sounds like you’ve been burned a few times. I guess your thinking would go along with: If you don’t want to be called fat then starve yourself a week and just eat salads and go to the gym. WRONG IS WRONG and DISRESPECT IS DISRESPECT!! Your statement is equally as ignorant. Not everybody “chooses” to be gay. What about fatherless males who were or have been molested and because of your thinking they never come out to anyone and live a life of self hatred. Not the case for all but to just put every homosexual or lesbian on the same boat is just not smart. I’m sure you don’t fit into everybody’s mold of perfection. I don’t condone this lifestyle but I’ve seen friends and even some family members struggle with this and some having thoughts of suicide. HOW CAN YOU ENVOKE CHANGE IN PEOPLE WHEN YOU SHOW THEM SUCH HATE AND DISRESPECT? Man, it surprises me everytime I log on how we talk about others on this site and how hellastupid some of the readers are! Amazing!!
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first no ones perfect red is red wrong is wrong and so on but people have different beliefs we r called black folks but we r brown I’m not saying anybody is right or wrong but jam a lot of the gay photos or people looking or doing some gay shit aint no different then a 400 lb chick in a size 7 mini or some other shameful shit people make new words everyday REMEMBER sometimes words hurt worst than sticks & stones
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Why do people insist on quoting the bible, read the whole book it also says DO NOT JUDGE, SO THAT YOU MAY NOT BE JUDGED. Matthew 7:1
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Giving a Bible scripture is NOT JUDGING, “The choice is yours to read it or not” ! EVERYONE ON THIS SITE JUDGES IN SOME WAY OR ANOTHER ?? (PIC.S, PEOPLE, PLACES, CLOTHES,) etc. It’s HOW you judge !! You can do it with RESPECT or you can do it in a HURTFUL way, and I chose to do it in a RESPECTFUL WAY !!!! AND BTW, people say EVERYTHING IMAGINABLE on this site, but you let ONE person give a bible scripture and all HELL brakes loose !! FUNNY HOW THAT HAPPENDS !
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Is calling someone “ghetto” derogatory?
Weren’t men raping other men to humiliate them in the bible? *ignore that, has nothing to do with anything.*
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WLL THAT IS A EASY ONE /// DONT BE FUCKIN GAY NIGGA!
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OH PLEASE GO SOMEWHERE WIT THAT. YOU CAN DELETE ALL YOU WANT YOU ARE STILL A TOTAL HYPOCRITE. IF YOUR FRIENDS WERE GHETTO, I BET YOU WOULDN’T HAVE THIS SITE. HATE DOES HAVE THE SAME EFFECT, SO I DON’T CONDONE IT EITHER, BUT THE WORD YOU DETEST IS NOTHING IN COMPARISON TO THE ACT.
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call a spade a spade, gay is gay, fag is fag, so fucken what!
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YOU KNOW THE GOOD BOOK SAYS THAT TOU DONT HAVE TO DO WRONG TO BE GUILTY. EVEN IF YOU CONDONE THE ACT YOU ARE JUST AS GUILTY. WRONG IS WRONG
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Yeah, saying “faggot” is crude and totally messed up. I believe gays prefer “ass bandit”. Someone correct me if I’m wrong.
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@trin i agree totally, this site is bullshit taking up for gays but when it someone else it ok for this site to disrespect other ??? ok jam fuck you
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see site owner get a grip on what you are doing.find yourself,what are you made of. you cant stand for every thing wrong is wrong
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Yo you’re a fucking hypocrite.You allow people to use Bitch,whore,hoe ,nigger,nigga,nicca,beesh slut and all other derogatory and racial slurs. Then you have the gall to come on here with the other hypocrites whether it’s your site or not and want to warn of the word FAGGOT GET fucking real. You and assholes and faggots such as yourself are the reason that word “holds so much power”.
Fuck you the gay ass horse dick you rode in on and I can give a fuck if you delete this I’ll just write another one and so on.I will not be sensored in any fashion.You have the site with adult content ,so let the fags ,niggers,crackers ,bitches, hoes,whores,gooks,wops,chinks,spics,wall faces,cabbages and all other forms of derogatory epithets be what they are……just fucking words!
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That’s what they are. wtf. You know what we been called niggas for hundreds of years nobody ever made a stink about it. But we can’t call a f a fgt . If you chose to come out and rep that ish, you should be able to take the dish.
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wouldn’t let me submit the word faggot but let me submit the word nigga. Well mr. donaldson tell me what’s really goin on? You takin this position because………….
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I must apologize my comp just decided to move slow at the moment sorry for the stab.
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Ayo Jam, back in da day my gay male friends used to call me a “fag hag” caused we all used to hang out every weekend at the Paradise Garage (gay spot made hot by Larry Levan).
Sorry if I thought the term was fair use all these years.
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Mr. Donaldson, a thousand pardons for offending your sensitivity, but I believe the comments are based on these “men” being a hot ghetto mess. Dressing in drag, pink thongs, one piece bathing suits with heels… If a big girl had on something 10 sizes too small then she maybe called a big bitch. Is she a bitch??? No one knows. But these “men” are showing twisted behavior in clothes ment for women and in femine poses. What would you call them?
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You said it right Jam. And it’s true, blacks are somewhat homophobic. I mean, if I hear the word no-homo one more time….Jesus!
Anyways, we have to love all people, no matter what their sexual preference is. Labels are the biggest discriminators, and I applaud you Jam for taking the time out and saying this. If a person doesn’t have something nice to say about a person or a group of people, then don’t say it at all.
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it all seems like a joke…. I can come on this site and say oooh that nigga ghetto… but I can’t say oooh that nigga a fag?! What the fuck ever!!!
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@JAM>>>I think that many of us use your site mostly for laughs and a time passer. We know that any NAME CALLING or BASHING toward anyone is wrong. To single out a particular group of people on your behalf and take up for them and delete our comments is just as wrong as our many negative remarks. In my opinion, you are being hypocritical and perhaps I should search for another website. See Ya!!!
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I bet Jam Donaldson fucks white boys. Have you ever let a white devil hit dat azz?
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i agree with pink. although sometimes the word faggot maybe used in harsh ways, what about some of the pics that i dont beleive arent so ghetto and people are steady calling them gutter bucket, hoodlum, food stamp receiving bitches, hoes and tramps. YOU DONT THINK TWICE ABOUT DELETING THOSE DO YOU. What you are saying is not true about the word because a majority of my friends are gay men and I call them faggots all the time thry know im playing but they dont catch offense from it. They know that being gay and coming out of the closet comes with consequences, so suck it up. Me being black with natural hair, It doesnt phase me when people call me nappy headed. I know its just naturality so i clearly dont give a flying fuck! Get over it. the worldloves gay women and hates gay men. me personally i dont care what you like because you are your own person.
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Elevate…time to educate or sleep on a grate.
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Can I say Queer?
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seriously, No disrespect but your being a little hypocritical.
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Why is everybody so uptight these days? I will use whatever derogatory name that comes in my mind at the time. It has nothing to do with hating a particular group. It has to do with being pissed off at a certain individual who happens to be part of some group. What’s the difference of calling an Asian a “slope,” and thinking that every Asian you see is Chinese. It’s both offensive. Who cares which term you use, it’s not always about “hate.” Sometimes people just irritate the shit out of you with their stupidity.
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ok, I don’t have any gay friends, never did and never will, but that does not mean i disrespect one when i see them. I treat everyone with respect regardless, but @jam if you fell so strong about what you just wrote then truthfully it might be time to shut the website down, you cant have your cake and eat it too,putting up THESES PIC AND THEN TELL PEOPLE WHO AND HOW THEY CAN MAKE FUN OF THEM IS A DOUBLE STANDARD. if your heart is full of so much love then it time to take this site down or creat a new one where every pic is cute and nice and stuff, “caus this site just isn’t IT!”
“If you can’t feed the baby, then don’t have a baby and don’t think maybe…”– Michael Jackson
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